Our favorite project—designing our life.
From Baltimore, to New York, and San Francisco—our friendship and collaboration grew into love—and now we canât imagine living our lives with anyone else. Cheers to the biggest project of them all, us.
From Baltimore, to New York, and San Francisco—our friendship and collaboration grew into love—and now we canât imagine living our lives with anyone else. Cheers to the biggest project of them all, us.
Grad School @ MICA
We meet in Baltimore from LA and Lancaster. Tim definitely thinks Jess is âtoo coolâ for him and she quickly teaches him not to underestimate her skills at making friends with everyone. In two years we learn a lot, start two businesses, become âKern and Burn,â and make amazing life long friends.
New York, New York
After Baltimore we both find ourselves in New York and our grad school friends become our roommates. We start working at these companies called âstartupsâ and put our MFA degrees to work building our careers. We also decide itâs a great idea to work nights and weekends to bring Kern and Burn to life while commuting from Jersey City to Manhattan to Greenpoint—at least we have youth on our side. We have our share of high-highs and low-lows through these first few years (New York will do that to you) and learn a lot about life while falling in love.
Tulum and California—the precursor.
Weâre getting settled into life in New York. Jess is learning product design at Paperless Post and Timâs leading teams at Canary. We still live with our grad school friends and roomies. We experience the magic of Tulum for the first time when our friends Kate and Nick get married and Jess loves it so much she travels back a few months later with her friend Amanda. She wants to show Tim California (and convince him they should move there one day) so for her 30th birthday they drive down the Pacific Coast Highway from San Francisco to LA. Itâs a great year of friends, travel, and life together in NY.
Long distance love.
Jess starts thinking about whatâs next for her career, and also decides itâs time to live by herself. So, as any sane person does, she signs a lease in NY, flies to SF to interview, moves into her apartment in NY, and days later decides to quit her job, and move across the country for her dream job at Everlane. Tim agrees to this because heâs the best and they both decide to give it a go long-distance. We travel every 15 days to see each other and work remotely. SF â NY and NY â SF. We log a lot of hours on FaceTime (thanks Apple) and Tim is exhausted because Jess makes him stay up til 2am East Coast time.
California dreamin.'
Exactly 364 days after Jess moved to San Francisco, Tim joins her in California. They have had enough of hanging out on a screen and are excited to finally live together. Tim says goodbye to his crew at Canary, moves into Jessâs apartment in the Mission and joins a new crew at airbnb. Jess finally finds a woodshop and starts prototyping benches. They explore the coast, travel to Vancouver, and spend time in the Outer Sunset a neighborhood they come to love for its laid back surf culture and proximity to the park and the ocean.
Ch-ch-ch-ch-changes.
Jess and Tim find an amazing place in the Outer Sunset and move into their first real apartment together and make it their home. We host friends and learn how to cook our signature fish tacos. Jess travels back to Tulum with Krissi and Virginia to show more of her people this magical place. Timâs parents visit and we show them our favorite coastal towns. Life throws some curveballs our way and Jess finds herself looking for a new job. So, naturally Tim also decides heâs in a âlike but not loveâ relationship with hisâand we both decide to take the leap and work for ourselves. But, the biggest moment of all of 2018âwe get engaged in Hawaii! Tim proposes in the perfect setting at Waianapanapaâs black sand beach. We also see a volcano sunrise, explore the Road to Hana, and survive Hurricane Lane. With a record amount of change, and the feeling that weâre just getting started, 2018 is one for the books.
Laying our foundation for the future.
We enter 2019 optimistic for the future and are settling into the unknown. Jess spends some quality time with family in Utah, Tim spends time with friends in Lancaster, and we both travel to Tulum to see our venues. We arenât sure what the future holds, but in this moment we are enjoying working for ourselves, starting businesses, and designing our lives (and this wedding) together. Weâre excited to see what the rest of this year brings and we look forward to an amazing 2020 celebrating with our friends in family in one of our favorite places (can you tell itâs our favorite?). See you in Tulum.